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Microaggressions: Understanding Racism

Lateefah Messam-Sparks
3 min readJan 5, 2024

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Reality television often mirrors the dynamics and conflicts of our society, sometimes shedding light on deeper societal issues that demand our attention. The confrontation between Dorit Kemsley and Garcelle Beauvais on the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills emerged as a crucial moment, exposing the pervasive nature of microaggressions and nuances of racism that persist in our culture.

The altercation unfolded in an exchange where Dorit accused Garcelle of being aggressive although she spoke calmly she managed to paint herself as a victim. In response, Garcelle, rightfully frustrated by the accusation, responded assertively. “Aggressive,” a word fraught with racial undertones when directed at Black women.

Microaggressions are subtle, often unintentional slights or comments that convey derogatory messages to marginalised groups. They operate on implicit biases ingrained in societal stereotypes and prejudices. In this context, the term “aggressive” carries historical baggage, having been unfairly attached to Black individuals, especially women, perpetuating damaging stereotypes of anger and hostility.

Garcelle’s astute response to the use of this term highlighted its racially charged implications. Her courage in speaking up about the impact of such language on Black women’s experiences was commendable. It underscored the critical…

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Lateefah Messam-Sparks
Lateefah Messam-Sparks

Written by Lateefah Messam-Sparks

Expat building a Chess and English business in Madrid and wanting to share my life, stories and other musings with you along the way. @safsparks

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