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How to be successful on dating apps.

Lateefah Messam-Sparks
6 min readOct 25, 2023

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Let’s dive into the intriguing world of dating apps, where the search for love, connection, or even a casual chat begins with a simple swipe. Whether you’re a seasoned dater or just dipping your toes into the digital dating pool, there are some valuable lessons and insights to be shared about navigating the ever-evolving landscape of dating apps. Let’s embark on this journey together, and who knows, you might just find your next great match!

Disclaimer: My Relationship Status
I’ll be upfront; I’m single and unattached. I’ve danced in and out of relationships, experienced fleeting love stories, but never quite reached that “move-in-together” stage. Despite the bumps and misadventures, I remain an unapologetic romantic, still believing in the magic of love and that there’s someone special out there. If you relate to my single-but-hopeful vibe, welcome to the club! I have also dabbled with the idea that I might not find someone who makes me want to leave the comfort of singleness and settle down and it is a feeling that I come to turns with even though I am still looking as I go.

Know Your Crew
In the world of dating apps, I’m fortunate to have friends across the spectrum. I’ve got pals who are happily single, loving every moment of it, friends who are out there dating and enjoying it, and those who are settled in committed relationships. The beauty of living as an expat is that the traditional timelines for marriage, babies, and all that jazz tend to…

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Lateefah Messam-Sparks
Lateefah Messam-Sparks

Written by Lateefah Messam-Sparks

Expat building a Chess and English business in Madrid and wanting to share my life, stories and other musings with you along the way. @safsparks

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